REALLY? Dating your adopted brother? Although there is no blood relation it is just wrong! He was raised with you as your brother. How could she even go there? That is just wrong! Wrong! Wrong! It is the same as when Woody Allen began to date his adopted daughter. No relation but that is still your daughter. Lines have been crossed.
The other thing that troubles me is that her family will be the administers of her fortune...sometimes family is not the best option. I do not know if her family can handle it. Look at Whitney and Bobby. Granted Whitney managed to keep her fortune but Bobby was stone cold broke at one time. Although she wants to have nothing to do with her father, he is still her father. I bet over time he will wear her down in regards to money. Maybe she realizes that and is trying to distance herself from him by wanting to change her name.
What do women want? Shoes! ~~Mimi Pond